Ever since the age of 11 or 12, I have thought of myself as a transsexual, a woman trapped inside a man's body, but based on a recent message I got from a man somewhere in North America the most important thing in my life by far was that I was transitioning into a woman and that I still had a dick!!

Why is it that such an amazing invention as the internet has to stir up so many of mankind's baser instincts? Whilst a male I always wondered why the term mankind was used in describing our spiecies, since I started to become one it is all too evident why women do not create a 'stink' over the use of the term!

So many 'things' that bear a semblance (however small) of humanity can not be described as relating to all 'mankind', for example which gender buys the largest selection of sex magazines? Which pays for sex? The top-shelf displays in news agents is aimed at whom? Catholic priests are which sex? Which sex usually goes to strip shows? When was the last time you heard of a man being raped by a woman?

It is possible I pre-judged the guy who sent the message, he may have just been looking for some companionship, but sadly as the world seems to be coming more and more extreme in its views and even its sexual morals, I had to put my personal safety first.

My dream of becoming a woman is finally in sight! However, if that means being a 'Chick with a Dick' please send me back to bed and never wake me up!!`

(I found it strange that these two buildings that have more than a passing resemblance to the male phallus were both in the USA! One in Michigan and one in Florida)

As a male my surname was Hill, so I suppose Phoebe's father's comment in his speech was quite 'entertaining', indeed 21 years later I remember it as if it was yesterday. However, about ten years ago I did do jury service and ended up as the Jury Forman (I hope they’ve now changed the term!!) I got to say “Guilty” to a woman we had to 'find on’ in court and judging by the way she broke down I would think she remembers my words in court! The difference being with good behavior she will have only been imprisoned for a few years I have carried my ‘punishment for over 20 years (My nickname in court was 'Hang 'em High Hill'.)

After the pub on that night we kissed and cuddled on her friend sofa, but it went no further. It was only a few days later that I saw her again and lost my virginity. As other girls will no doubt have experienced to enjoy (she lied) the most intimate of times I imagined that it was me getting made love to by the man I was, which I suppose could be described as the ultimate out of body experience!

We carried on dating (I hate that term), and it was during that time I reached one of the 'top of the world moments' that really means you have lived life. I had spent two years at art collage in Newcastle and decided I wanted to be an Advertising Copywriter. (They come up with ideas for advertisements for TV, press and radio etc.) I didn't like the idea of living in London, being a country girl at heart, so I looked for a job in the North. I ended up getting what was probably one of the best junior jobs outside London and should have been set for life whatever my sex.