The song above is 'Sex and Drugs, and Rock and Roll' by the late great Ian Dury and his band the Blockheads. I was just browsing around You Tube and some old favourites, when I remembered this old track - it was 30 years ago that it was first released, but to a certain extent it illustrates a question that I am not sure how to answer!

You see on line last night I was asked by a man at what stage in my transition would I consider having sex with a man. He is in Egypt so it is unlikely we'd ever meet, but it got me thinking (A dangerous pastime - I know). I always thought the earliest time I would think about it would be after I had healed, when I will be as close as I can be in this life to a full woman.

Back to rock and roll, and I don't mean Joan Jett, I do love my music and still have loads of old fashioned vinyl albums and signals! As for the drugs in the song in our case I take it the drugs will be hormones!!!

Even as a man I always fully respected women for their choice of what to do with their bodies, but as a woman should I simply be prepared to satisfy any man who want's it??!